“What’s
wrong?” My husband was out of his regular routine coming downstairs immediately
after he woke up. He began to explain how the sump pump broke and his need to repair
it before the predicted storms. My gut reaction was the normal “woe is me”.
There is
always something to complain about in every situation. We don’t have money for this right now… You have to get in to work on
time for your medical test for insurance this morning… Why is there always
something broken frustrating our days? The list is unending as to how I am
inconvenienced.
“I’m
thankful I saw it and there wasn’t a fire last night!” My husband expressed
truth opposite what was playing in my mind. The girls and I slept soundly
unknowingly of the smoking sump pump that was overworking itself without
shutting off. My husband came home from a night out with friends and saw it
before going to bed.
“I’m
thankful it didn’t happen this past weekend when we were away!” Another
response of gratitude from my husband interrupts my selfish thoughts. Our
weekend camping trip had just ended and we were still in the process of packing
the gear away. My husband spoke truth and his reflections were better for the
soul than the ones swirling in my thoughts.
“I’m
thankful you know how to replace sump pump already!” I joined my husband in shifting
my focus. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right,
and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and
worthy of praise. – Philippians 4:8
My husband was able to get to the store, purchase the
materials, replace the sump pump and walk into his office at work one minute
early! God is good. ALL THE TIME. Even when I don’t see the bigger picture and
think I’ve entered a terrible, horrible, no good, very bad day.
We may not be able to control the circumstances that come our
way. However, we do have control over how we respond to them. There’s a lot of
truly horrible news out there. A family of little boys lose their mother tragically
and their lives are altered forever. Parents have their world turned upside
down as they take their little girl in to the doctor expecting a virus and unexpectedly
hearing leukemia instead. A mother fights
to stay alive for her little boy with a double mastectomy and rounds of chemo
and medication enter her weekly routine.
Most days this world is overwhelming. It’s easy to get
wrapped up in the pain. I’m choosing to remember that we are only here
temporarily. This world is not my home and eternity is waiting. This is just a
temporary holding ground shaping each of us more into the image of Christ. How
will today’s obstacles shape me?
Consider
it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many
kinds, because you
know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let
perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not
lacking anything. – James 1:2-4